Non-love is characterized by a complete absence of intimacy, passion, and commitment, indicating a relationship that functions neither as friendship nor as a romantic partnership. For example, this could apply to someone newly met or when there is no emotional connection at all. If this state persists, the relationship does not deepen, remaining meaningless for both parties. Efforts to cultivate interest and build intimacy are necessary to escape this state.
To change a non-love situation, start by taking an interest in each other. Find common hobbies or interests to discuss, which can foster intimacy. Also, take time to understand each other and build trust. Passion and commitment often develop naturally as intimacy deepens, so it is important to progress the relationship patiently.